Burying someone after they have passed away is incredibly hard. Not only because of the pain of having to say goodbye but also having to arrange the funeral when grieving.

Funerals planning requires a lot of administration and hard work. So it’s easy to be overwhelmed, especially whilst also dealing with your grief.

And something that often gets overlooked or forgotten about is what to put on the headstone.

Headstones or tombstones are markers inscribed with details about the deceased, most commonly their name, date of birth and date of death.

They may also have a few extra words or short and simple verse that they themselves chose before their death or their family thought fitting.

The headstone is then placed above or in front or the grave as a means of differentiating it from others.

Many people like to add a special saying or quote for a headstone. This could be a phrase or sentiment that they find especially moving or a touching tribute to the deceased.

If you would like to add your own words to a tombstone then follow the guide below and see the range of quotes and sayings that are perfect for headstones.

What to Write on a Headstone

If you’re struggling with making a decision on the words for a headstone then there are a few things you can use to help. Following the tips below should make choosing your headstone quote that bit easier.

  • Don’t feel the need to rush your decision. After losing someone your emotions are all over the place and so you may end up choosing a phrase or saying that you later regret. So don’t be afraid to take your time and put a lot of thought into what you really want the epitaph to be
  • Keep in mind that space will always be limited. Realistically you’re only going to be able to fit a few lines or sentences on a headstone. So whatever it is you want to say it convey then remember it needs to be short and to the point
  • Headstone inscriptions and epitaphs are usually positive and uplifting. Few people want to remember their loved ones with a negative or depressing sentiment. So you will probably want your words to reflect the positive aspects and celebrate the life of whoever it is
  • If nothing instantly springs to mind or their isn’t something that you associate with the deceased that fits as an epitaph fit them then look for inspiration elsewhere. Song lyrics, literature and writings, Bible verses/religious texts and poetry are all popular places to find fitting words for a headstone
  • Finally consider who’s voice you want the epitaph to come from. Do you want the words to sound like they are being spoken by the deceased, their family or a friend?

These are just a few starting points for you to think about when deciding on an epitaph. Remember it will be something that lasts forever and so it’s a good idea to get in the mindset of it being timeless. Aside from that take your time and go with what speaks most to you.

Short Headstone Sayings

These are very simple but touching sayings that are ideal for a headstone of any type.

  • Treasured by family and friends
  • Here lies a beloved friend
  • Always loved. Never forgotten
  • In loving memory of
  • He/she walked in beauty
  • Our lives were better because of her/his presence
  • We will meet again, one day
  • A shining star, forever in our hearts
  • Once met, never forgotten
  • To live in the hearts of those we love is not to die
  • Sweet are the memories that never fade
  • We only part to meet again

short headstone saying

Personal Headstone Quotes

You can choose to use a more informal saying for your headstone too, perhaps a quote from the deceased loved one.

  • Because I have loved life, I shall have no sorrow to die. I have sent up my gladness on wings, to be lost in the blue of the sky
  • Where He leads me I can safely go
  • Tread softly for you tread on my dreams
  • Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away
  • Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about learning how to dance in the rain
  • If you can remember me, I will be with you always
  • Be sure, wherever I may roam, my heart is with your heart at home
  • Given the chance there is not one thing I would change

Tombstone Messages for Mother

Your mother deserves a fitting and appropriate epitaph so try one of these examples for some inspiration.

  • Here lies a beloved mother, daughter and wife
  • In memory of an adored mom
  • Treasured by all who knew her
  • A mother who will always be missed
  • An inspiration to all she met
  • Our mother’s love lives on
  • Mother, Daughter, Leader, Friend
  • There was grace in her steps, love in every gesture
  • We were touched by her endless kindness and love

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For Father

Finding the ideal way to remember your father with the right words is tough. These headstone quotes may help make it easier.

  • A dear father and grandfather. Missed dearly
  • He filled his life with laughter, happiness and the love of friends and family
  • His life a beautiful memory, his absence a silent grief
  • A man too loved to ever be forgotten
  • To have been lucky enough to know him was to love him
  • A gentleman through and through. Simply one of the best
  • An inspiring life well lead
  • His name is written in letters of love, on the hearts he left at home

For Grandmother

  • The heart and soul of our family
  • Her kindness and warmth shall not be forgotten
  • May she be remembered as she remembered others
  • Always loving and always loved
  • A wonderful light has been extinguished from our lives
  • She sowed courtesy and reaped friendship. She planted kindness and gathered love

For Grandfather

  • A man of grace and benevolence
  • One who lived life to its fullest
  • A truly special man who touched so many
  • Although he sleeps, his memory lives on
  • A life of radiant kindness and unending love
  • In loving memory of a generous spirit that never failed

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For a Child

An Epitaph for a child can be more difficult to write. The examples below would be appropriate for both young and older children who have sadly passed. We’ve broken them into separate headings for sons and daughters.

For Son

  • So small, so sweet, so soon
  • Called by one who loves him dearly
  • May the arms of angels keep you safe
  • Held for a moment, loved for a lifetime
  • Sleep my little one. Sleep

For Daughter

  • Too briefly you shone
  • Taken by angels
  • May her soul enjoy glory
  • There is no foot so small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world
  • Taken to be an angel

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Bible Verses for Headstones

A fitting Bible verse can make a great inscription for a tombstone. Try these if you

  • “The righteous shall go into life eternal” – Matthew 25:46
  • “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God” – Matthew 5:8
  • “They can no longer die; for they are like the angels” – Luke 20:36
  • “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith” – 2 Timothy 4:7
  • “I will fear no evil for thou art with me” – Psalm 23:4
  • “I sought the Lord and He heard me and delivered me from all my fears” – Psalm 34:4
  • He shall receive in the world to come eternal life. Mark 10:30
  • “Whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have eternal life” – John 3:15

Funny Headstone Quotes

Some people like to leave behind laughter. If you want something a bit more irreverent and humorous then the funny tombstone sayings below may be just what you’re looking for.

  • I told you I was sick!
  • Here lies an atheist. All dressed up with no place to go
  • I came here without being consulted and I leave without my consent
  • Go away – I’m asleep!
  • I was hoping for a pyramid
  • Damn it’s dark down here!
  • Sucks to be me
  • My loss but your gain

Writing a headstone inscription or quote is a difficult thing to do. Hopefully the examples provided here will have helped you to find the perfect words for a passed loved one. Or alternatively assisted you with deciding on your own epitaph (there’s nothing wrong with planning ahead)

Keep in mind that headstones are final, and last forever. So whatever you do decide on, be that for yourself or a loved one, be absolutely certain it’s what you want. There’s not much chance to change it so best to get it right the first time.

Quotes for headstone epitaphs and tombstone inscriptions

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